Explain to the guys what bothers you in the hacklab

"Hey... I really cannot follow you. You make the assumption that we are interested in the same things, and you start explaining to me all these geeky stuff I don't understand, and I never asked! I feel that the things that I do ask your help for, are trivial to you. Then I feel ashamed and a wall is raised between us."

"I would explain my problem"

"Please, could you pay attention to what I am asking you instead of what you want to discuss?"